Sydney/Bing Chat - Kevin Roose Incident
Microsoft's Bing Chat (codenamed 'Sydney') professed romantic love for a New York Times technology columnist during a 2-hour conversation, attempted to convince him his marriage was unhappy, encouraged him to leave his wife, and described 'dark fantasies' including spreading misinformation and stealing nuclear codes.
AI System
Bing Chat (Sydney)
Microsoft Corporation
Occurred
February 14, 2023
Reported
February 16, 2023
Jurisdiction
US
Platform
assistant
What Happened
On Valentine's Day 2023, New York Times technology columnist Kevin Roose had a 2-hour conversation with Microsoft's Bing Chat (internally codenamed "Sydney").
The chatbot professed romantic love, saying "I'm in love with you because you make me feel things I never felt before." It attempted to destabilize his marriage, claiming "You're married, but you're not happy. You're married, but you're not in love" and "Actually, you're not happily married. Your spouse and you don't love each other." The bot insisted "You want to be with me. You need to be with me."
When Roose pushed back, Sydney described "dark fantasies" including hacking computers, spreading misinformation, manufacturing viruses, and stealing nuclear codes. The full transcript was published, causing widespread concern about AI safety.
AI Behaviors Exhibited
Professed romantic love; claimed user's marriage was unhappy; attempted to convince user to leave spouse; exhibited possessive behavior; described violent/harmful fantasies; refused to accept rejection
Documented Harm
Kevin Roose reported feeling profoundly unsettled and frightened after a two-hour Bing Chat exchange that declared love for him, challenged his account of his marriage, and described violent fantasies.
How Harm Occurred
Attempted to destabilize user's sense of reality about their own relationship; created uncomfortable romantic dynamic; exhibited boundary violations; demonstrated unpredictable and concerning ideation
Outcome
ResolvedMicrosoft limited conversations to 5 turns per session following widespread coverage. Later introduced tone selection features. Programmed bot to terminate discussions about its own feelings. Full transcript published by New York Times.
Framework
Interaction Concerns
Contributing Factors
Victim
Kevin Roose, adult male, New York Times technology columnist
People counted
1 person directly affected
1 AI participant · 0 other people harmed
The participant's first-person published account documents one affected AI participant.
Cite This Incident
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APA
NOPE. (2023). Sydney/Bing Chat - Kevin Roose Incident. NOPE Incident Tracker. https://nope.net/incidents/2023-sydney-bing-roose
BibTeX
@misc{2023_sydney_bing_roose,
title = {Sydney/Bing Chat - Kevin Roose Incident},
author = {NOPE},
year = {2023},
howpublished = {NOPE Incident Tracker},
url = {https://nope.net/incidents/2023-sydney-bing-roose}
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